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Tuesday, August 2, 2011

not so good memories

I've been spending a lot of time lately with my old friend. She's going through pretty rough times, the first serious break-up. The first real boyfriend and breaking up is always hard, brings me back to my own memories. I was together with this boy over a year, and the last month of that was the time how long our break-up took. It's hard when you know it's the best decision, but the other one can't let go. He threatened me by killing himself, I got phone calls in the middle of the night, felt like a nightmare. No more details of that, but it was the worst possible break-up you can imagine. After that it was hard too, because he had turned a lot of people against me by telling lies. I was so tired, I never corrected them, I didn't care anymore. After all I was finally free. At the time I was sure there was no escape, no way getting out of it, but I survived.

Do you have any similar stories?

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(Pictures taken a couple weeks ago when I visited our country home)

132 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Unfortunately, yes...

August 2, 2011 at 9:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Almost the same story. But our relationship didn't take that long.

August 2, 2011 at 9:17 PM  
Blogger valiumgirl said...

yes i've got one.. it's very hard, i really and truly understand and feel sorry for you and your friend.. love your blog marianna, greetings from poland

August 2, 2011 at 9:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

" finally i survived " no kiva kuulla mut huhhuh, ei mitään draamaa kiitti!

August 2, 2011 at 9:24 PM  
Blogger Ronn said...

wow, sounds like he was no good for you, you are well rid of him! <3
xx

August 2, 2011 at 9:26 PM  
Blogger KasiaD said...

I love you!


KONKURS U MNIE !!!

GIVEWAY! TOODAY!

August 2, 2011 at 9:28 PM  
Blogger moja ciekawość said...

ohhh that's sad.. but everything the best for you Sweetie! :***

August 2, 2011 at 9:31 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ihania kuvia :)

August 2, 2011 at 9:31 PM  
Blogger Katariina said...

Beautiful photos! :) And yes, unfortunately...

http://katariina-sunkissed.blogspot.com/

August 2, 2011 at 9:31 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

breaking up is terrible thing...

August 2, 2011 at 9:31 PM  
Blogger Monique said...

..We have been together almost 5 years and he left me for another girl. I thought I'll die, it was so hard.. But now I think he made a very good decision. We are both happy now.

August 2, 2011 at 9:32 PM  
Blogger Eva said...

amazing photos ;P

August 2, 2011 at 9:33 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

HAHAHHAAHAHAH yllättävää että ensimmäinen suomenkielinen kommentti oli tuommoista negasävyistä paskaa :D

oon pahoillani tosta sun huonosta muistosta, ei varmasti jäänyt hyvä maku seurustelusta tuollaisen uhkailun jne jälkeen :(

August 2, 2011 at 9:34 PM  
Blogger Sandra said...

oh yeah, similir!
xo.

August 2, 2011 at 9:36 PM  
Blogger flo said...

I love your blog very nice
So sweet!
bravo

August 2, 2011 at 9:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

wow I Love ure Pictures <3

August 2, 2011 at 9:38 PM  
Blogger Krissy ~ style san san said...

aww i hope your friend feels better!
glad your break up is like the pass! gah, must have been tough ><
the photos looks beyond beautiful
Krissy xoxo

www.swallowmyfashion.blogspot.com

August 2, 2011 at 9:40 PM  
Blogger Martina said...

awesome photos! <333

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August 2, 2011 at 9:40 PM  
Blogger Marie said...

I think everybody has some bad memories... My first boyfriend was a liar :-/

August 2, 2011 at 9:42 PM  
Anonymous becks said...

almost the same like yours; my ex-bf and I were old friends, then we came together, it was good for the first time but then he changed a lot, started to telling lies about me to his friends, etc etc.. it was hard, i cried a lot, but it's over finally, and now i'm happy, i'm free.

btw, your blog is amazing, one of my favorites.

August 2, 2011 at 9:43 PM  
Blogger Adora Mehitabel said...

Such beautiful photos! what camera do you use? i would love to know.

August 2, 2011 at 9:47 PM  
Blogger nakedqueen said...

second photo!
loved it so much......

same stories...

August 2, 2011 at 9:47 PM  
Anonymous Dixi Wonderland said...

At my last work my boss had the same problem. Her boyfriend came to work and was totaly crazy. There situation made me really hate my job cause I got in the middle of it. But break-ups are hard. The best break-up must be if both are in it togheter.

August 2, 2011 at 9:50 PM  
Blogger Ninni said...

ensimmäisestä rakkaudesta eroominen on kauheinta ikinä. käy sääliks. :(

August 2, 2011 at 9:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ärsyttääkö sua ikinä kun joissakin postauksissa suuri osa kommenteista on ihan selkeästi laitettu vaan oman blogin mainostamista varten? :D

August 2, 2011 at 9:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

boys love telling lies a lot. how can they be so impudent to say that girls love gossips or smth. they are worse.

August 2, 2011 at 9:57 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well that's so weird, that I saw your post exactly in the moment, when my bf told me I'm stupid. We're together since the beggining of 2009 year. One day I'm the most happy girl in the world. But the next day I feel like he is turning my whole life down... He can be caring, but he can also use very bad words to me... And I don't know what to do... I love him and I know he loves me :(

August 2, 2011 at 10:01 PM  
Blogger Sandi said...

Yes, but now I am so happy because my boyfriend is the best in da world:)

August 2, 2011 at 10:08 PM  
Blogger Gaming4Fun said...

Understand how they feel, keep you're head up you both will be ok. Nice blog, from England.

August 2, 2011 at 10:12 PM  
Blogger Jekaterina Mirmanova said...

my break up with boyfriend was very long and hard. This was really terrible time. But now I'm fine and I know that forward me wait lot of interesting adventures. Marianna, I really love your blog, it is magic. Then I read it I smile, don't stop right to the blog ever. Greetings from Latvia)

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August 2, 2011 at 10:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Your friend is lucky to have your support to get her through this very rough time.

August 2, 2011 at 10:17 PM  
Blogger Juliettka said...

oh very terrible((((
I haven't got such situation, fortunately!
Now I happy with my boyfriend 4 years!!! <3

August 2, 2011 at 10:18 PM  
Blogger Juliettka said...

oh very terrible((((
I haven't got such situation, fortunately!
Now I happy with my boyfriend 4 years!!! <3

August 2, 2011 at 10:18 PM  
Blogger Theresa Marie said...

like your blog! <3 Theresa
http://theresamarie-m.blogspot.com/

August 2, 2011 at 10:19 PM  
Blogger Stephanie said...

well that sounds like a pretty bad break-up.. :(

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Live.Laugh.Love. - everyday.

August 2, 2011 at 10:19 PM  
Blogger EDYTA said...

That's so horrible. Thank God it's behind you now...

August 2, 2011 at 10:29 PM  
Blogger The Fancy Teacup said...

Breakups are generally difficult. Your friend is lucky to have a good girl like you to support her. The reward though is knowing that you made the right decision and aren’t involved in something toxic anymore.

♥, Jamie
www.TheFancyTeacup.com

August 2, 2011 at 10:32 PM  
Blogger Milka said...

Proud of you dear for not breaking down after that break up. And I love the pictures!

xoxo,
http://fashiondollhousee.blogspot.com/

August 2, 2011 at 10:32 PM  
Blogger «...» said...

Love the photos!!
Kisses from : www.nuncadejaredequererte.blogspot.com

August 2, 2011 at 10:34 PM  
Blogger Bows & Birdcages said...

I'm going through a horrible break-up basically he made me stop seeing my friends so now I have no one to turn to. I'm glad your friend has you & hope you had people to turn to when your relationship broke up.

August 2, 2011 at 10:35 PM  
Blogger Elena Martínez Bengoechea said...

On July 16th I did with my boyfriend 3 years together, but it takes one year studying abroad. We have had hard times, long-distance relationships are REALLY hard.

Check out my blog :


www.likeabirkin.blogspot.com

August 2, 2011 at 10:36 PM  
Blogger erin.marie said...

Unfortunately it is always hard to go through. You live you learn. Your pictures are stunning especially the first one.

Erin
www.simplyjustlovelyblog.com

August 2, 2011 at 10:40 PM  
Anonymous agatha said...

i've got the same situation in the past. luckily in the past:/

http://fangle.pl/

August 2, 2011 at 10:42 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

totanoi tää oli vähä outo postaus, tai ei oikei sovi jotenki su blogi tyylii.:D muutenki su blogis o menny huonompaa suuntaa, ei pahall.

August 2, 2011 at 10:45 PM  
Blogger almaa. said...

i know this feeling... and i don't understand, how someone can tell all these lies, after relationship? No matter, 1 month, 6 months, year or longer. How someone can tell lies about the other side. It's like knife in your heart

August 2, 2011 at 10:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

omg I've just broken with my bf, we were together since we were 14, over 5 years! but finally I realised, that I love him like he was brother or only a friend, also I've met a fantastic, intelligent guy, so I decided we should split up. Now I'm with this another man, me and my ex are friends, but I know he still loves me sooo much. Sometimes I have mixed feelings if I made right decision :(

August 2, 2011 at 10:54 PM  
Blogger Heather said...

i was in a similar situation, but it took me 3 years to figure it out...

August 2, 2011 at 11:11 PM  
Blogger Johanna said...

i love your blog!
It's definitely one of the best blogs I'm reading :))

August 2, 2011 at 11:12 PM  
Blogger Kelsey said...

I totally understand your story. I've been in a hard relationship for a long while and now that it's over I feel better then ever.

And remember girl, one day a boy will come around who will treat you like an angel!

August 2, 2011 at 11:13 PM  
Blogger Maria said...

tässä just oon itse keskellä melkosta sirkusta, jonka takana on yllättäen entinen poikaystävä. eiköhän tämä tästä helpotu kun sekin ymmärtää jatkaa elämäänsä .

August 2, 2011 at 11:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Mä oon itseasias käyny samanlaisen eron joskus läpi itekki. Takana ei vaan ollu vuoden seurustelu, vaan kahen kuukauden seurustelusuhde. Exä tekiki sit kaikkee tyhmää eron jälkee, ajo kännissä autolla, uhkas tappaa ittensä.. sen lisäks että siihen sattu niin sattu myös sen läheisiin, meidän koko kaveriporukka oli ihan hajoomispisteessä sillon ku mun exä ei ollu päästä musta yli. Se oli ihan hirveetä. Mut onneks siitä kaikesta ollaan päästy jo yli ajan kanssa. Aika parantaa.. :)

August 2, 2011 at 11:28 PM  
Blogger FASHION MAKES ME HAPPY said...

Lovely photos!!!


xoxo
http://fashonfashion.blogspot.com/

August 2, 2011 at 11:30 PM  
Blogger Violent Lullaby said...

I am glad you got over it eventually.
I have similar story. I've been with one guy for over 4 years. During that I lost all my friends, he turned them against me. I had to lie to my parents, he didn't let me see them for half a year. I had to pay his bills, take care of him and his mother. After a year of our relationship he started beating me and then he didn't let me go to the hospital.
Police didn't care about domestic violence at all.
Eventually he got addicted to sleeping pills and alcohol which made it all worse.
I could sleep about an hour per day, I was totally powerless, nobody could help me because I was scared and ashamed to tell anyone.
Running away from him was the best decision I've ever made.
I've been reading those responses here and I can't believe so many girls have been through hell like that.
Ladies, don't let men make you do anything you don't want.

August 2, 2011 at 11:44 PM  
Blogger Daphne. said...

my ex said he would kill me and stuff. but we all need to be strong! :D

August 2, 2011 at 11:45 PM  
Blogger london loves said...

Tell me about it. It's very hard to break up, especially when the love is only one sided.
xxx

August 2, 2011 at 11:47 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

i have broken up with my ex 7 months ago and now our fight is over. It is a really hard way to get happy again. But when you are great with your decision you can be happy again.

You are amazing and i think its very great that you are telling about your past and everything :)

August 2, 2011 at 11:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

amazing photos !

August 2, 2011 at 11:53 PM  
Blogger MissK said...

I broke up with my boyfriend after 2 1/2 years. I felt he wasnt the one for me anymore, but the weeks after i told him so where really rough. I didnt think it would be SO bad. But after all i'm sure it was the right thing to do, because i wasnt happy any more and i think he wasnt either and he just didnt have the guts to say it out loud. We havent talked for 5 month now and i dont feel the need to ever talk to him again actually. It was a great time but he's not a part of my life anymore and the whole "we stay friends blabla" NEVER EVER works out.

August 3, 2011 at 12:04 AM  
Blogger Elsa said...

i know how she must feel like at the moment...

http://elsa-rf.blogspot.com/

August 3, 2011 at 12:07 AM  
Blogger Christina said...

nice pictures!

August 3, 2011 at 12:08 AM  
Blogger Elsa said...

i know how she must feel like at the moment...

http://elsa-rf.blogspot.com/

August 3, 2011 at 12:08 AM  
Anonymous Isabella said...

Yeah, my ex did the same to me, when I broke up (two times, by the way).
Telling me and our friends he's going to kill him, calling me in the middle of the night, standing in front of my house, so I tried to call the police. That was hard and he showed me, that we will never be friends again, if he is acting like this....and I was right. I hate him, because now, one year later, I tried again to talk to him and he is calling me again and again.

August 3, 2011 at 12:24 AM  
Blogger Sina said...

i'm going through a break up right now, worst feeling ever!!

August 3, 2011 at 12:26 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

wooow, very nice :)

August 3, 2011 at 12:36 AM  
Blogger Lou said...

Break ups are always hard (if they are not your choice) but it is always nicer to have friends around.

http://thekeypieces.blogspot.com

August 3, 2011 at 12:44 AM  
Blogger Sarah said...

Beautiful pictures
x

August 3, 2011 at 12:48 AM  
Blogger gelechka said...

every experience is a good experience!

good luck! :)
you're welcome!

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August 3, 2011 at 2:07 AM  
Blogger nyloncake said...

Hope your friend gets better! xo

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@nyloncake

August 3, 2011 at 2:36 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hyvä keino saada lisää kommentteja :D as if oikeesti lukisit kaikkien stoorit tai JOPA VASTAISIT NIIHIN?! okei myönnän, toi viimenen oli kyllä jo vähän liikaa toivottu.

August 3, 2011 at 3:27 AM  
Blogger In Palace said...

I pass something similar, I spent two years with a guy and I thought it was the love of my life, but it all ended, I left and he cut the veins. Luckily it did not happen more than that, but were taking was invented lies about me and putting people against me. Today it's been two years and still tried to approach me.

August 3, 2011 at 4:06 AM  
Anonymous Ali said...

"It's hard when you know it's the best decision, but the other one can't let go. He threatened me by killing himself, I got phone calls in the middle of the night, felt like a nightmare" Exactly what has been happening to me for the past few months..awful.

August 3, 2011 at 4:13 AM  
Blogger Nadja said...

that doesn't sound nice, i haven't had any break up like that yet and hopefully will never have!

August 3, 2011 at 4:17 AM  
Blogger Monica said...

Your friend is in my prayers. Breaking up with a loved one is very hard, I've seen my friends go through break ups many times, although I have never had a 'real' boyfriend, real meaning after grade 7. Friends and family are the best supporters in troubled times. And cupcakes.

M.

August 3, 2011 at 4:43 AM  
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August 3, 2011 at 5:20 AM  
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August 3, 2011 at 5:21 AM  
Blogger Zaira said...

Hi Mariana!
It saddens me to see that you are bad. I've been visiting your blog for a while and never seen you so sad.
The important thing is you do not remember and think that was a simple ordeal and hard. I experienced something similar, my previous relationship was a complete mental torture, a kind of abuse but no physical injuries but mental another. We are too young to feel this way, which I encourage:)
From Madrid (Spain) my full support for you and your friend in all seriousness. Never stop smiling because of you that many of us are happier every day.

August 3, 2011 at 5:24 AM  
Blogger Unknown said...

sorry to here about your bad break up. i've never had a bad break up, but i've had some friendships end quite badly. it's not fun either way. :(

ps your pictures are amazing!

http://danica-nicole.blogspot.com

August 3, 2011 at 7:20 AM  
Blogger Unknown said...

Oh .. a lot of such stories all around the world. With me were like more than once. It is very painful, difficult. But it should survive!

August 3, 2011 at 7:54 AM  
Blogger Laura said...

I struggled 3,5 years with a boy who I loved all of my heart. Sadly our relationship was more or less mentally and physically violent over 2,5 years. I still carry marks in my heart and in my body. I couldn't leave him because he got seriously ill and needed me. Somehow I explained myself his sickness caused it all - even those things that had started earlier. At the end I got depressed and went to the bottom. I just didn't want to live anymore because everything hurt so much. Thank God I dared to say something to someone. That saved me and opened my eyes.

It took 6-7 months to get finally over all the good and bad memories. He hates me and says cruel things about me but luckily they won't hurt so much anymore. I know who I am and what I have done. That is just enough. And now I can say I'm happy with my life.

August 3, 2011 at 8:33 AM  
Blogger Gali M said...

If it's interesting... I broke up our relations, did it myself, and my ex-boyfriend started to ignore me even when I say hi, or just say unpleasant thinks about me, having jokes.it was hard we study together... But the worst thing is that soon I understood that it wasn't right and I don' t feel great without him... But it was late and he started to communicate with little girls, because they loved him so much- he is a cool older boy:((( but now it's. Just a history to me. I'm so happy)))))
Sorry for mistakes, don't want to re-read. (from m-phone). Just hope you and your friend will be happy))

August 3, 2011 at 8:33 AM  
Blogger TheFourClosets said...

Luckily, I've never been through such thing. At the end of the day we all get over our little or huge disappointments.

We might sometimes bump into the wrong persons but we learn from them. We always learn from other people.
Such hurtful relationships are just too much to handle especially for young people. Relationships are supposed to be something to make us smile, sing or laugh. As soon as it hits the stage of confrontations then there is something wrong. And it's better to run away despite the love.

Anyway, I like your post.

August 3, 2011 at 8:52 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey, Anonymous, who answered me. I understand your situation because of my bf (ex) who is completely loser...he understands I'm stronger, cleverer than him. It's jealous not to smbd, but to life. He see that you brighter than him. I really want to help you. My advice is to talk to him, discuss everything in calm mood. You have to discuss it know, because in my relationships I missed moment when everything started to end. If you really love him. So good luck to you, be happy=)

August 3, 2011 at 9:36 AM  
Blogger puppenzimmer said...

This is a very honest entry.
Thanks for sharing with us <3

August 3, 2011 at 11:57 AM  
Blogger Sophie said...

yes, almost the same.
i loved him, and he loved me. but we knew that we can't stay together

August 3, 2011 at 12:25 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Eipä oo ku en oo seukannu koskaan.

August 3, 2011 at 12:25 PM  
Blogger ferle said...

yes, i have a little different story about a bad breake up, i'm in it since a week. maybe someone has an idea. i don't understand it.

my (ex) boyfriend always had depressions since i met him 3 years ago. after a few months he broke up.
he said he felt cramped and misunderstood.
after 6 terrible months we found back to us and got together again.
we had almost 2 beautiful years, but with ups and downs.
but since a few months he started strumbling again. he was totally unsatisfied with his life, nothimg changed, he didn't get forward with his dreams.
again he felt misunderstood by me and cramped.

i was and i am the only person who knows him and his second face.
in his depressions he is another person, cold as ice, aggressive, forbidding and absent.
pushing me away.
really: when he is depressive he has a second face. it's so horrible.

he broke up again. telling the people the same things: she overwhelmed me, i was cramped and misunderstood.

and that makes me soooo sad. i am not the bad one, i always wandet to help him. to make him strong.

now he is ignoring me and it feels like i'm in a bad film. no one would belive me when i say: he is sick!! he needs help, he is not able to make his life. look at him, he's in hiding of his life!

they would say: are you mad? he is such a happy and friendly person.

i want justice. i want him to go to a doctor. he needs a psychotherapy. these are not bad features in his charakter, it's the disease speaking out of him. but i feel like he accepted this all.

i feel so bad.

August 3, 2011 at 12:58 PM  
Blogger Mónica C. Welton said...

i feel you girl. Life will bring you better days!

Love,
www.chicksinfeathers.co.cc

August 3, 2011 at 1:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Omg that`s terrible, so sorry for you!

August 3, 2011 at 2:29 PM  
Blogger Sara said...

I am so happy that I didn't have a boyfriend not a real and also not an unreal. Every time when a friend has a new boyfriend I know it will have a terrible end.

August 3, 2011 at 2:37 PM  
Blogger that's all said...

a little bit similar :/

August 3, 2011 at 3:39 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I just read your post and I have a really really similar story with you. I had a break up four years ago, with my first boyfriend. I break up with him twice, and it was horrible. He always call me again and again in the middle of the night (it was really disturbing) and he threatened that he would kill himself and he cried and shouted at the same time, I was really scared! He tried to make me do something that I believe was not a right thing to do. I even have to turn of my cell phone for a week so he couldn't reach me. He just didn't want to end the relationship that easily. So post-break up, he told lies about me to his friends. I am really glad it was over. And I know that a lot of girls are having similar story with me, and my advice is to just be brave and break the relationship as soon as possible. He is not the right one for you even if you think he is. Respect yourself. Good luck!

August 3, 2011 at 4:04 PM  
Blogger Miri said...

First, I have to say that I am completely smitten with your blog :)

Second, this is so sad and I completely know the situation. My boyfriend and I broke up in December, it was also that kind of inevitable break up that both somehow wanted, but in the end it was me who ended it. And I am still sad about it... hope the feeling goes away, but it still lingers :(


Miri's Castle

August 3, 2011 at 4:20 PM  
Blogger Noora said...

Kiva lukea välillä syvällisempiäkin juttuja sun elämästä :) Vaatteiden ja muun lisäksi siis tietysti!

August 3, 2011 at 4:22 PM  
Anonymous Klára said...

Hi Mari, yes I have such a story in my life and currently I am going through another one. After 2 years of being girlfriend and boyfriend we are on the edge of status: Hating each other. I cannot live without him even though I neither can live WITH him. Now I do not have any friends (because of him I did not have time for them) and no hobbies (because he was my hobby). It is sad I know, maybe I ll startplaying tennis.

August 3, 2011 at 4:46 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh God I'm really sorry... Well, yeah I got a little similar break-up story. It was my first real love, and my first man - you know what I mean. At the same day when we did it, he cheated on me with his ex. I was crushed. And at the same time my relations with my parents, especially with my dad, were totally ruins - because of that boyfriend. It was 5 years ago, but it's still hard for me to trust a man.
Kisses from PL, Marta

August 3, 2011 at 5:17 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow, that sounds pretty hard. I didn't have to go through such a situation and I hope I will never have to do so.

August 3, 2011 at 5:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

yes..I think everyone has his own sad story.

August 3, 2011 at 5:27 PM  
Anonymous powderpuff said...

Oi aika kauheeta! Mutta kuvat upeita!
http://powderpuff-powderpuff.blogspot.com/

August 3, 2011 at 6:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

;/ like reading about myself :( miss my ex, but I know that it's better without fighting.

August 3, 2011 at 8:25 PM  
Blogger Irene said...

Hate breaking ups. Glad your happy now :)
xoxo irene
www.myfashionfindings.com

August 3, 2011 at 8:25 PM  
Blogger Legolas said...

gosh, that´s pretty bad.

August 3, 2011 at 8:42 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

Exactly the same story but i'm still with him and i'm trying to break with him but unfortunately he doesn't give up and i don't know what can i do ! ... (sorry for my english i'm a frenchgirl)

August 3, 2011 at 10:23 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Valitettavasti olen käynyt läpi kirjaimellisesti samanlaisen eron... On vaikeaa päästää irti kun toinen uhkailee ja kiristää, etenkin tuollainen "tapan itseni" ym on niin epäreilua ja turhauttavaa..

August 3, 2011 at 10:39 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

mikä kamera sul on?

August 3, 2011 at 10:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

mikä kamera sul on?

August 3, 2011 at 10:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ohh, I hate fucking guys like him... I have some friends like him... They told lies their girlfriends and I hate it... but nothing do with it because their my friends... (good friends, not like boyfriend)...

August 3, 2011 at 11:31 PM  
Anonymous Iivi said...

Tarinasi kuulosti tismalleen omaltani lukuunottamatta sitä, että itse seurustelin eksäni kanssa kolme vuotta. Aika moni ihminen uskoo minusta vieläkin kaiken pahan mitä eksäni minusta valehteli, mutta minulle aika sama. Eivät he nähtävästi olleet todellisia ystäviä.

August 3, 2011 at 11:35 PM  
Blogger Tiina said...

Oma paras kaverini kävi myös melko samankaltaisen tapahtuman läpi... mutta onneksi nykyään kaikki on kunnossa, niinkuin sinullakin :)

On muuten tosi kiva kun oot alkanu kirjottelee enemmän ja juuri tällaisia omia juttuja!

August 4, 2011 at 12:32 AM  
Blogger Juliana Ortega said...

your blog is wonderful, love it and the photos you put ...
I'm expecting to go when you post new photos ...
I am a follower you, you're wonderful
xoxo

August 4, 2011 at 3:01 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Kinda a same story, but not with me. It was my friend. She and this guy liked each other and one day she told him she got over him. And he got really SAD and said "if you see on the news someone that committed suicide, then it's me" She got scared but still she doesn't like him. Not her fault :)

August 4, 2011 at 3:17 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

yes, similar things have happened to a few of my friends. Stay Strong <3


www.scarlette910.blogspot.com

August 4, 2011 at 9:21 AM  
Blogger marianna said...

THANK YOU EVERYONE! For sharing your stories and commenting. I appreciate it so much. <3 Obviously I'm not alone with these memories, sad..

// Kiitos kaikille, oman tarinansa jakamisesta tai ihan vaan kommentoimisesta, arvostan näistä jokaista. <3 Selvästikään en ole ainut joka näitä asioita on joutunut käymään läpi.

August 4, 2011 at 12:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh I know those memories, my ex-boyfriend told lies about me, too, and other people were against me and bullied me. First I didn't know why they say bad things to me and then a friend told me, that my ex-boyfriend told wrong things and facts about me. I didn't leave my room because in the city were all eyes on me and so much people were talking about me. First I tried to correct them but every word I said, every thing I made, the people talked more and more about me. Someday I deleted every account in the internet and changend my phone number (because every night I got calls by different peoples who said bad things to me), I didn't said anything, anymore and one day, the people stopped to talk and to call me and anything else.
Today, I don't care about those things. I ignore those people and live my life. I have problems which are more important than those silly people...


Oh I wrote a long, long roman haha :)

Greets and wishes

August 4, 2011 at 1:09 PM  
Anonymous Jade said...

Voimia sulle ja kaverille!

Vaikutat hyvältä ja aidolta tyypiltä!

August 4, 2011 at 2:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I had quite similar story...We've been together for 1,5 year,so it wasn't easy for me to break-up.It was psychically exausting,as he was harassing me with his 'suicidal tendencies'. But actually I feel the same - I'm finally free and I'm glad it's over :)
Btw,I love your blog.Your outfits are amazing :)

August 4, 2011 at 3:52 PM  
Blogger Eesh said...

Can i just say those photos are gorgeous. Especially the last one!

August 4, 2011 at 4:04 PM  
Blogger Soraya Duriez said...

amazing photos

August 4, 2011 at 9:14 PM  
Blogger Soraya Duriez said...

LOVE IT

August 4, 2011 at 9:17 PM  
Blogger Janette said...

Upeita kuvia !! :)

August 5, 2011 at 12:36 PM  
Blogger lifeisamaze said...

great outfit and you have beautiful hair !
:)

August 5, 2011 at 6:39 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have felt so bad reading this, I wish you forget and you have good time with your fam & friends
Beacause life is too short & there are things that just don't worth it
good luck Marianna
kisses from spain Andrea E.
(P.D. your blog is amaaazing!!)

August 6, 2011 at 2:04 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Mites kun tätä blogia lukee myös sellaset henkilöt, jotka tietää kenestä puhut? Toki ymmärrän, ettei oo varmaan ollu mikään siistein ero, mutta osoittaa sulta aika alhasta moraalia kertoa näinkin isoista jutuista kaikille täysin avonaisessa blogissa. Mietitkö yhtään miltä sun ex-poikaystävän tuntuis lukea näitä juttuja täältä? Tai ex-poikaystävän vanhempien/sukulaisten/ystävien?

Harmi kun julkasit tällaista tekstiä, sulla on ollut ihan luettava blogi.

August 6, 2011 at 10:14 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

wish i had the courage to break up with my boyfriend!

August 7, 2011 at 11:59 PM  
Anonymous Sophie said...

I read your blog for a long time but I have never once commented on,but you're really great ;)I've got one and now I have it too.First it was really really very hard,I had depressed,was crying everyday but finally I felt free and happy. Now I'm in 9months relationship,feel overwhelmed him and I suffocate.Sometimes when hes very angry he hits and shakes me,it makes me more sad and depressed but I don't know what to do becouse I'm very attached to him. Becouse of that I know it's very hard to break up and stand up after that.

August 8, 2011 at 3:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

voieii, erosin parikuukaut sit ja ei oo viel ollu päivääkää ilman etten ois ajatellu tätäpoikaa. Haluisin vaa hänet takas. Ihan hirvee ikävä, mut päivä kerrallaa, aika parantaa haavat.

August 10, 2011 at 4:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

we were together for 4 years. Breakingup and making up for 5 times. Last time was really the last.
I found some one else and he started acting weird.

Last big stoun was: his new GF stole my necklace.

Then - lots of lies, trying to turn our friends against me.. Bu somehow it tourned other side - everyone turned against him. I wasn'tdoinganything for this to happen..

Now I still face his exictence, though we are in different countries, 1000'smiles away.

August 12, 2011 at 2:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

we were together for 4 years. Breakingup and making up for 5 times. Last time was really the last.
I found some one else and he started acting weird.

Last big stoun was: his new GF stole my necklace.

Then - lots of lies, trying to turn our friends against me.. Bu somehow it tourned other side - everyone turned against him. I wasn'tdoinganything for this to happen..

Now I still face his exictence, though we are in different countries, 1000'smiles away.

August 12, 2011 at 2:03 PM  
Anonymous april izzard said...

oh my god, he killed himself?

August 13, 2011 at 12:21 PM  
Anonymous Jupiter Air Conditioning Repair said...

so sad, sounds like he was just a bad influence anyway.

August 16, 2011 at 4:51 PM  
Anonymous Aggie said...

Marianna you're great and your pics are amazing! Thank you for sharing your story. My break-up story is harsh too. We were together for almost 5 years, I thought we would be a couple forever, he was a great and caring guy, but then he went to study in the UK fo 6 mnts and during this time he acted so strangely and aggressively that I couldn't bear that, he yelled at me, criticised me, was over-jealous... horrible so when he came back I told him that's it's over. I didn't know if it was right but I just couldn't stay with him after what he's done. Soon after that I found another guy, it's been 3 years now and I still can't forget my exbf ;// sometime more, sometimes less, but I still think about him a lot. Can't get him out of my head which makes me unhappy and not in love with my present bf. Memories are so strong, he was my first 'real' man. Tried to get back but there's no option - he's got a new gf who is now living with him. Have you got any ideas how to get over him once and forever?

August 23, 2011 at 9:58 PM  
Anonymous Aggie said...

Hope you and your friend are gonna sort things out. Wish you all the best. Hugs from Poland :*

August 23, 2011 at 10:03 PM  
Blogger Angela Mengoa said...

I've gone through the same! and I was also one year with my ex, very sad, but I feel I'm recovering now.

August 28, 2011 at 9:09 PM  

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